be sealed with the holy spirit.

BY DEC. 31



Through Confirmation, Catholics receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit, completing the graces begun at Baptism. Confirmation is a sacrament of mission: giving us the grace, perseverance, and boldness to live a life with Christ and to proclaim the Gospel daily.


In order to be eligible for Confirmation in May 2020, students must: 

  • Be at least 16 years old by April 28, 2020.

  • Have completed Alpha in the fall 2019.

  • This is not a rite of passage, this is an encounter, Confirmation candidates must desire to receive this gift. 


Following completion of Alpha, juniors wishing to receive Confirmation will do the following:

  • Fill out an "Intent to Receive Confirmation" form by December 31 (form available Nov. 1).

  • Meet with an adult for your discernment interview in January.

  • Attend 5 weeks of immediate preparation classes beginning , in mid-February and ending before Easter. View schedule below. Sponsor (or a parent) will attend all 5 sessions with candidate.

    • Why? We realize that this is a big commitment for a sponsor or parent, but this will help us bridge the gap between Church and home, between "real life" and sacramental prep. Talking with a trusted adult apart from peers will also challenge our students to have better discussion and ​answer honestly. 

  • Attend the Confirmation mini-retreat with practice on Friday, April 24, 6:30-9:30pm.

  • Receive Sacrament of Confirmation on Tuesday, April 28 at 7pm.



Session #1: Feb. 9, 2020  - 11:45am-1:15pm

Session #2: Feb. 16, 2020  - 11:45am-1:15pm

Session #3: Mar. 1, 2020  1- 1:45am-1:15pm

Session #4: Mar. 8, 2020  - 11:45am-1:15pm

Session #5: Apr. 5, 2020  - 11:45am-1:15pm

Practice & Vigil: Apr. 24, 2020  - 6:30pm-9:00pm

Confirmation Mass: April 28, 2020  - 7:00pm

Overview of a Typical Session

10-11/10:30-11:30 - Sunday Mass at your parish

11:45-12:05 - Lunch

12:10-12:20 - Welcome and Table Discussion

12:20-12:35 – Main Teaching

12:35-12:50 - Discussion with Sponsors/Parents

12:55-1:10 - Prayer in Church

1:10-1:15 - Closing




Before you register, you need to do three things:

  1. Choose a Sponsor

  2. Choose a Confirmation Saint

  3. Answer a short essay question: "what kind of disciple do you want to be?"


Each confirmation candidate must select a sponsor. This person is a representative of the Catholic community who agrees to mentor the candidate throughout the year and presents the candidate to the bishop at the Confirmation Mass. A sponsor should be someone who not only models the Christian life but can also challenge you to grow in it. To be eligible, the person must be a baptized, confirmed, and practicing Catholic who is in good standing. A student may not choose a parent. 


There is a rich tradition in the Catholic Church of choosing a new name to begin a new mission. Abram became Abraham, people who become nuns or monks, have historically taken new names, as does a bishop who becomes pope. You are asked to take the name of a saint you admire. This saint will also be someone who can intercede for you in heaven.

3. SHORT ESSAY: What kind of disciple do you want to be?

This is a tough question and it will probably be difficult to answer. It may be helpful to first ponder this: 

  • A disciple is someone who joyfully chooses to live their life centered around Christ.

  • The saint you chose is the perfect example of a disciple. What aspects of their life do you think God might be calling you to imitate?

  • If you were to become a saint, what would you want to be known for?

  • If you took a leap of faith and totally let the Holy Spirit guide your life without fear, and you could do anything, what would you want to do? 





Before you register, you will need the following items/information:

  • Baptism date and parish

  • Chosen Confirmation Sponsor (details above)

  • Chosen Confirmation Saint (details above)

  • 2 paragraph answer to the question, "what kind of disciple do you want to be?"(details above)

  • Payment ($65 cost). If cost is an issue for you, please contact Sarah. Financial aid is available.

After you register, sign up for a time to meet in January for your Confirmation interview.






  • Attend the 5 preparation sessions with your sponsor (or a parent). 

  • Write a letter to the bishop, requesting the sacrament. Due March 15. Details coming in Feb.

  • Attend the Confirmation practice/vigil.




Confirmation Mass: April 28, 2020 - 7:00pm

What is Confirmation?

In Confirmation, you will receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit and His gifts, preparing you for your ministry and renewed commitment to Christ. This Holy Spirit is the Counselor promised to us by Christ Himself when He said, “If you love me, you will keep my Commandment. And I will pray to the Father, and He will give you another Counselor, to be with you forever, even the Spirit of Truth, whom the world cannot receive, because it neither sees him nor knows him; you know him, for He dwells with you, and will be in you” (Jn 14:16-17).

Jesus gave the Apostles His Holy Spirit after His Resurrection when He breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit” (Jn 20:22). We receive the Holy Spirit in Baptism when we are Baptized “In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.” But in Confirmation, we complete what we started in baptism and receive the fullness of the Holy Spirit (CCC 1285).

Confirmation more perfectly unites you to Christ (CCC 1309), and prepares you for a familiarity with the Holy Spirit, His actions, gifts, and bidding (CCC 1309). The Sacrament of Confirmation more perfectly binds you with Christ’s Church as well (CCC 1309) and all Her members throughout the ages. By your Confirmation, you will become a Christian witness (CCC 1304, 1317), and will be responsible for preaching and defending the true faith (CCC 1295). You will also accept for yourself the responsibility of continuing your education in the faith and practicing your religion (CCC 1295).


What are the effects of Confirmation?

  1. We receive a full outpouring of the Holy Spirit as at Pentecost (CCC 1302).

  2. We partake in divine filiations (CCC 1303):

    1. we are united more firmly to Christ.

    2. we receive an increase of the gifts of the Holy Spirit.

    3. we are bound with the Church more perfectly.

    4. we are strengthened to spread and defend the faith.

    5. we are given the grace to confess the name of Christ boldly and never be ashamed of the Cross.

  3. We are given an indelible, permanent mark as a witness of Christ on our soul (CCC 1304).

  4. We share more perfectly in the common priesthood of the faithful, which helps us to profess our faith publicly and officially for ourselves (CCC 1305).

CCC=Catechism of the Catholic Church paragraph number



Gifts of the Holy Spirit

In Confirmation, you will receive the fullness of the gifts of the Holy Spirit. These gifts help us to be holy. The Seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit are:

  • WISDOM – infused gift to give a delight for the things of God and to direct our whole life and all our actions to His honor and glory. Also makes the soul responsive to God in the contemplation of divine things; goes beyond simple knowledge of the beliefs to a certain divine penetration of the truths themselves.

  • UNDERSTANDING – infused gift to allow the mind to grasp revealed truths easily and profoundly with insight into the meaning of these truths.

  • KNOWLEDGE – infused gift to give a person the ability to judge everything from a supernatural viewpoint. As a result, a person can see the providential purpose of whatever enters his/her life, interact with people and things properly according to God’s will, and discern easily and effectively between the impulses of temptation and the inspirations of grace.

  • COUNSEL – infused gift to enable a person to determine promptly and rightly what should be done, especially in difficult situations. This primarily refers to one’s own choices/behavior.

  • FORTITUDE – infused gift to give a person unusual courage and a special strength of will, including an extraordinary readiness to undergo trials for love of God.

  • PIETY – infused gift to give a person loyalty to God and the things of God; enables a person to see God as a loving Father and act toward Him with generous love and affectionate obedience.

  • FEAR OF THE LORD – infused gift to inspire a person with profound respect for the majesty of God.


Choosing a Confirmation Sponsor 

Each candidate should have their own individual sponsor. Your sponsor may be a godparent, a relative or another role model in your life. 


Qualifications of a sponsor: 

  1. Sponsors are to be active members of a Catholic Church who attend Mass regularly. 

  2. Must be sufficiently mature in his/her commitment to Christ. 

  3. Not prohibited by law (canon or civil) from exercising the role of sponsor. 

  4. Must be a minimum age of 16 years.  

  5. The person chosen must have the intention of performing their role and assume an ongoing spiritual relationship with the candidate – this is not a one-time role! 

  6. Must be a fully initiated Catholic, having received the Sacraments of Baptism, Eucharist and Confirmation. 

  7. Cannot be the parent of the Confirmation candidate.  


What does a sponsor do?

  1. Assist in the preparation for the Sacrament. 

  2. Accompany the candidate and present him to the bishop/priest. 

  3. Help the challenges the candidate to grow in faith and relationship with Jesus Christ and His Church.

  4. Attending Mass as often as possible with the candidate. 

  5. Participating in a service project with the candidate if possible. 

  6. Continuing to be a source of encouragement and guidance for the candidate after Confirmation. 

Traits to look for in a sponsor: 

  • A sponsor prays and desires to be a saint. 

  • A sponsor participates in the Liturgy and in the parish. 

  • A sponsor listens and is respectful. 

  • A sponsor serves as a bridge, helping the candidate understand and become familiar with the people, places and traditions of the Catholic faith the candidate is unfamiliar with. 

  • A sponsor respects the candidate’s freedom, allowing the candidate to decide whether this is the right time to seek the Sacrament of Confirmation. 

  • A sponsor lives in a world of hope, feeling confident in being able to live their faith in the world. 


Prayer for Choosing a Confirmation Sponsor 

Holy Spirit, helper and guide, give me wisdom as I choose my Confirmation sponsor. Help me to choose a person of prayer who will teach me also to be a person of prayer, who will support me in difficult times, who will guide me to make good choices, and who will challenge me when I do not. Help me to choose someone who will love me and teach me to love Jesus. Thank you for giving me a community of people around me to support and guide me as I take this important step in becoming more fully a member of your Church. Amen. 

Choosing a Confirmation Saint

During Confirmation, when the bishop anoints you with chrism and lays his hands on your head, you will receive the Holy Spirit in a new way: God will seal what he began in Baptism. This sacrament is a powerful encounter with God. Throughout our Christian history, such encounters were marked with a name change. For example, God gave Abram the name of Abraham and his wife Sarai the name of Sarah. Even today, when a man or woman enters a monastery/convent they also take on a new name and when a man is elected pope, such Jorge Bergoglio, he takes a new name such as Pope Francis.


In that tradition, we will mark your Confirmation with a name change. This new name -- the name of a Saint whom you admire and who you would like to imitate -- is imposed by the bishop during Confirmation. Traditionally, Catholics have added their Confirmation name to their legal, full name following their middle name and before their last name. You may choose instead to keep your Baptismal name. However, you are still expected to research the life of a saint you’d like to be your patron.

Why Choose a Saint?

The veneration of saints is an ancient tradition in our Church. We believe, as Catholics, that many of those who have gone before us are in Heaven – this means they have already achieved their life’s goal: eternal life and glory in heaven! As they are now in heaven, these saints can help us in two ways.  First, they are models for us of the Christian life on earth. Second, they pray (intercede) to God on our behalf. We ask each Confirmation candidate to choose a saint whom they would like to imitate and pray to in a special way.  This saint will become your patron saint, so take time to pray and think about who you’d like to choose. 

Where to Start

  • Pray. Ask the Holy Spirit to help you find a saint who will inspire you and be a spiritual companion.

  • Brainstorm what kind of a saint you’d like to have: someone with specific qualities or hardships they’ve endured; or a saint with a common interest, name or birthday as you.

  • Read their stories, some have lived heroic, unimaginable lives and others may remind you of yourself. Which stories stuck with you? Which saint seemed to just stand out?

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Your patron may be fully canonized, a Blessed, or someone from the Old Testament. You may choose either a man or woman.


But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Sama'ria and to the end of the earth."

Acts 1:8

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